David Beckham is said to be
talking posher. He is opening his mouth more. He is sounding better and he is
making a greater impression on people. How is this so? He has apparently done some
voice work so that he can sound better. Why would Beckham go through rigours in
order to sound better? Margaret Thatcher, former British Prime Minister was
believed to have undergone voice coaching in order to sound better. Many celebrities
are also understood to have gone to great lengths to ensure that they speak
better.
Why do people go to great
lengths in order to make deep impressions on others through the way they speak?
I believe it is because they understand that image plays a very important role
in our relationship with people, so they are always looking for every
opportunity to improve their image. They understand that no matter how
well-dressed or popular one may be, if one mispronounces or misuses words, one’s
appeal with others may be adversely affected.
My question to you is this?
How well do you speak? Do you verbalise your words well? Do you speak clearly
and coherently? Do you speak with poise and panache? If your answer is no, then
you have to work on how you speak. Why? It appears people don’t judge us by
what we say alone. How we say what we say also goes a long way in influencing
how people receive what we say.
I think one simple way by
which you can help yourself to speak well is to listen to people who speak
well. It could be on the radio, t.v., in movies, etc. If you constantly listen
to good speakers you may find yourself picking some things from them on the art
of speaking. And when you learn anything new, endeavour to practice it until
you master it.
My parting question is this: if David Beckaham, Margaret Thatcher and many others
thought it was important for them to learn to speak well, do you think it is
important for you to speak well?
I totally agree with you Darasimi. Some have it naturally and some have been able to nurture it. This is particularly necessary for people in leadership roles where very often, you have to convey messages of direction, change, hope, belief, love and so on. Good article.
ReplyDeleteI recently took a public speaking course on Coursera but only very small part focuses on voice. I recommend it anyway for whoever is interested.
Thanks, bro. How you dey?
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